We celebrate our angels birthdays each year. The first year after each of their deaths we had a birthday party and even invited friends and family. For both boys we made cupcakes and released balloons to Heaven. It's my way o saying that we certainly remember but also saying that I'm grateful for their births. Because even though their deaths were the lowest of lows, their births were still amazing and miracles in themselves.
It's been over five years now since our first loss, and we still do birthday celebrations. We just don't have everyone over anymore and we don't always do balloons. But every year in March and July you can find blue Ives cupcakes on our house and new toys at the boys graves. We remember.
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